Creating Content: May 11

I create content in other places than Eloquation. Here’s a quick look at some of the places I’ve been dabbling on the web this week.

If you like mud, dirt, or construction equipment, you might like the two photos I uploaded to Flickr this week.

Some great street artOver on Squandrous, I thought about love, linked to an article about friends with benefits, reflected on the first two days of my new job, raved about Bill Israel, shared what would likely be a toast I’d deliver at a friend’s wedding, and picked flight over invisibility as my super power. And in addition to all of that, I remembered that I’m not perfect, and that’s okay.

Other than that, it was a relatively quiet week for me on the web. New job and all, you know. I promise more updates next week — and I never break a promise.

You can also find more of my updates on blogTO, Big Questions: Answered, Vimeo, Dopplr, Last.fm, Easily Smitten, Google Reader, Upcoming, and Facebook.

Creating Content is published every Sunday and will highlight my favorite posts and activity from around the web every week.

I call my mom every day

I’m not even going to pretend otherwise: I’m a momma’s boy, to the core.

If you knew my mom, you wouldn’t blame me. She’s one of the kindest, smartest, and most generous women I’ve ever known. She makes me smile every single day, and she taught me the most important lesson I have ever learned: the best thing I could ever be is myself, so forget trying to be someone I’m not.

Happy Mother's Day

I read an article the other day that said that most men rarely ever call their mothers. I find this shocking. I call or text or email my mother every day. Even if I’ve seen her that same day. If that’s supposed to make me some kind of soft push-over, so be it. My mother is more important to me than some societal stereotype.

I read another article that said if mothers were to be paid for the work they do, they would receive six-figure salaries every year. Honestly, I think they’re lowballing. Growing up, my mom acted as doctor, teacher, psychiatrist, arbiter, fashion consultant, historian, mediator, career counsellor, and much more. You try doing all those jobs at the same time; six figures just wouldn’t cut it.

So today, on Mother’s Day, and every day after this, I’m not going thank my mom for everything she has done for me. It just wouldn’t be enough. Instead, I’m going to show her the fruits of her labor; I’m going to prove to her that her hard work raising me resulted in a son that reflects the goodness and compassion that she emanates every day.

Happy Mother’s Day mom. You have always been my inspiration and continue to be my motivation to be the best me I can be.

Sure, we should be thanking our mothers for their sacrifices every day, but if you haven’t done so lately, pick up the phone and give your mom a call. It’s the least you can do today. (Photo by Froggy Pond Road.)

Sleep: everybody does it, nobody admits it

Back when I was in high school and college, there were several bad behaviors that were often worn as badges of honor by my fellow students: not studying for an exam, pulling an all-nighter, getting so drunk that you can’t remember being taken to the hospital for alcohol poisoning, hooking up with people you don’t know, etc.

Now, as we’ve all grown up, most of us have seen the folly of our ways and would hardly brag and boast about many of these immature activities. Except for one:

Being able to function on little-to-no sleep is still seen as a noble trait. I think it’s absolutely ridiculous.

Sleep makes you a better person…

A recent post on Signal vs. Noise listed a few drawbacks to sleep deprivation:

  • Stubbornness.
  • Lack of creativity.
  • Diminished morale.
  • Irritability.

Speaking from personal experience, every single one of those drawbacks is completely true. I only wish it didn’t take me over 25 years to realize that a lack sleep makes me an unproductive, unhappy, and unfriendly person.

What David Heinemeier’s post forgets to mention is that not only does sleep deprivation affect your mental capacity, it also affects you physically. Sluggishness is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to lack of sleep-related health problems: not spending enough time in bed can lead to weight gain and obesity, which in turn is a precursor for all sorts of problems like diabetes and heart disease.

…bragging about your lack of sleep does not.

We all know that adequate sleep is an important part of a healthy lifestyle. So why do we tend to revere people that don’t get enough?

There was a time when I admired people that could function on four hours of sleep (I get about six hours a night myself) and would ask them for tips on how to stay awake without suffering from exhaustion. These days, I look up to people that get eight hours of sleep and still have time to work, play, and spend time with their families.

Photo of sleeping puppy by Lukman KusumaIf you think about it, people who “don’t have enough time” to sleep a healthy amount are not the productivity machines we assume them to be. Instead, they’re just bad at time management.

We should be admiring the people who put in efficient work days, spend time on leisure activities, manage to take care of themselves and their families, give back to their communities, and somehow are still able to get a serious amount of shuteye.

So next time someone brags to you about only sleeping for four hours a night and putting in exceedingly long days at the office, tell them you got eight hours of sleep last night and smile. They’ll soon realize that they’re not in college anymore, and that bad behaviors are no longer badges of honor; instead, they’re markers of immaturity.

It’s just past eleven at night, so it’s time for me to hit the sack. Good night.

Do you get enough sleep? Why or why not? Is getting an adequate amount of sleep even possible in today’s fast-paced environment? (Photo by Lukman Kusuma.)

Creating Content: May 4

I create content in other places than Eloquation. Here’s a quick look at some of the places I’ve been dabbling on the web this week.

I didn’t do much on Flickr this week, but I did upload a photo from my balcony in Lisbon and a terrace in London.

Dundas Square, by Sam JavanroughThis week on Squandrous, I bemoaned the lack of good yogurt in Toronto, shared some context behind the TTC strike, broke some news on the iPhone coming to Canada, shared a video by Clay Shirky that demonstrated why I have time to blog, and admired one of the most striking book covers I have ever seen. I also bemoaned the fact that everyone brags about how little sleep they get, and shared a fantastic newspaper blackout poem.

On blogTO, I not only wrote about the SummerCamp Dance Party that took place earlier this week, but also previewed the Metronauts Transit Camp Hamilton which took place yesterday.

I also started my run of contributing to Café Conversations. Try and guess which posts are mine.

You can also find more of my updates on Big Questions: Answered, Dopplr, Vimeo, Last.fm, Google Reader, Easily Smitten, Upcoming, and Facebook.

Creating Content is published every Sunday and will highlight my favorite posts and activity from around the web every week.

2008 Summer Movie Preview

I watch movies so you don’t have to.

And also because I enjoy them considerably.

Summer is the season of blockbusters. Hollywood studios spend millions of dollars in production and marketing to entice us all to take a trip to the local cinema and watch childish humor, unrealistic action, and overwrought drama. And I love it.

Wall-ELike many other people who work in film criticism and appreciation, I love a meticulously-crafted independent film that has considerable artistic merit. That being said, I also love to see what Hollywood can produce when it pulls out all the stops: the blockbuster shows the true power of the film industry to push the boundaries of imagination and technology.

Some may argue that the blockbuster is losing its luster, but there’s no denying the appeal of the big-budget summer movie. The summer itself conjures up images of hot days, disposable income, romantic flings, and lots of time to waste: a perfect fit for the film industry who provides air conditioning and a great way to spend that time and money with your romantic flings.

Let me help you pick the good from the bad. Below, you’ll find a week by week breakdown of the standout and sleeper hit for each set of releases. For the movies that I have already seen, I have included a diamond rating (out of 5: ♦♦♦♦♦) next to the film title. Films that have been creating a lot of buzz but are almost guaranteed to disappoint will be marked as notable omissions.

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